Bashing Millennials

Bashing Millennials seems to be a growing sport. I think bashing the next generations is a long time honored tradition. So it is nothing new. Is it deserved? How is such behavior helpful? Can we do better?

I'm a Gen Xer. What in the hell did we do other than become good, well behaved, consumers and watch the world burn via CNN? We did not create the current mess we find ourselves in. No, we made it worse with our demand for monster SUV's, fresh meat, High Fructose Corn Syrup and opioids. I'm sure somewhere along the way we did a few useful things. We did give the world Beavis and Butt-Head, perhaps the finest cinema ever produced. We did NOT survive the Great Depression, storm the Normandy Beaches or even fight for Civil Rights like those before us. Nah, we got into internet porn. Given our track record, we should spend a little less time bashing the next generation we are passing this shit show on to.

No the kids are not perfect, endlessly staring into the glow of an electronic screen large or small, ordering food online for delivery because going out is... well hard. And going into six figures of debit to study theater may not be the smartest thing. But they do get some stuff right.

I think they are much better Hell raisers than we ever were. Occupy managed to at least change the conversation from debit and austerity to the 1% and gross income inequality. I think rather than failing it morphed into new movements. Black Lives Matter is still going strong and depends on young people. And then there is March for Our Lives. Kids are growing tired of being shot to death just for going to school. While my generation was day dreaming of Hummers back in the day, youth now are starting stuff like Zero Hour fighting for climate justice.  There are more good things going on with Millennials. Just look around.  

So to all of us older types, maybe stop bashing and jump in and help? Oh and if you are fortunate enough to grow old, these will be the people taking care of you. Have we done enough to earn care in our old age? No. But it is not too late. We are in this together. So give the kids a little applause and guidance (if they ask for it). It seems to me they are doing a good job of leading the way.        

                

American Language of Conflict, Violence and Discord

George Carlin

My favorite comedian, George Carlin, once said, "...The words you use say a lot about you." The language that permeates out culture is full of conflict, violence and discord. I think we have always been this way but it has gone off the rails in the last few decades. One of George's bits is when we don't like something we declare war on it:
The War on drugs.
The War on poverty.
The War on obesity.
The War on AIDS.
The War on cancer.
The War on terror. 
...and on an on.
Now, we have a war on facts and a war on reality itself. This does not sound like the language of a peace loving people. Even in sports we find similar war like language.

Teams don't play each other. They go to war, battle and fight! Some of this is to  build TV ratings, sure. But it is normal language. It even shows up in golf. "Tiger and Rory dual in tie breaker!" Football is all about war as George explains here (along with a little on baseball). The language filters down to the high school level if not lower. Acts of sportsmanship are an anomaly in the age of me me me all the time.

We talk about business and economics in the same way. Competition, trade wars, know your enemy, court / legal battles, tactics and strategy. It too filters all the way down from nation-states to coworkers. My coworkers (teammates?) are also my closest competition. As an old friend told me in regards to to the workplace long ago, "...trust no one." The workplace can truly be a jungle. If you a part of a sales force, you know this. Who's on top, who's on the bottom? It all too often feels we are on our own, me versus the world. If I'm lucky, I have "job security." This seems to be getting worse with time. Don't look to politics for answers. Here the language of conflict, violence and discord knows no bounds.

It is now a daily occurrence that our reality denying president insults, lashes out, trades barbs with, dehumanizes and tears down another world leader or group. That's what we get when a so called "TV Reality Star" is allowed to become president. He lost the popular vote. But that's another story. Our two political parties who have too much in common have long ago gave up on serving the people and working together to solve actual problems. Now it is much more like a TV reality /game show than a legislative body doing the work of the people. Insults, finger pointing and entrenched gridlock keep hardly anything (except what the corporate masters want) from getting done.                  

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These are not "bloodless" wars. Consider all the chronic traumatic encephalopathy (CTE) in football and premature deaths. Now, I'm not sure anyone has died from golf yet. But I hope it gets the point across about language. Business in a capitalist system must have casualties in the form of poverty and spiraling uncertainty. In politics, language can not only lead to physical war but outright genocide as well. The words we choose to use say a lot about us, indeed.   
       

Stateless

A Quick RANT 

So 45 likes to run his mouth about people born on US soil who's parents are not citizens also not being citizens. Yet another example of his utter clueless understanding of the world the rest of us live in. We have enough problems without adding yet another class of untouchables. Hello, they are not citizens anywhere else either. So what are they to do, other than politely die at no cost to the rest of us? I know it is just an appeal to his more xenophobic base, but Jesus!    

Guilty County

I worked for 20 years in a state employment office.  We offered job search assistance, training, veterans' services and unemployment insurance. We never could shake the label "Unemployment Office. In a day, I may see those with six figure incomes (with or without advanced degrees) to others scraping by on part time minimum wage work. In my experience, no group had a tougher time than those saddled with criminal records. It was even worse for females with criminal records. The guys could still find construction laborer and other forms of low skill back breaking work. Women less so, at least in my experience.

I was pretty good at getting people to open up, sometimes too good. A young African American lady, Tonya, (not her actual name) sat down and let me know right off the bat she had a felony. I forgot what it was for or even if she told me. She knew she was in for a rough time and taught me much about life as a poor dark skinned person weighted down by a permanent criminal record. She was not at all nasty or angry, just detached. From her, I learned about police occupation; warrantless home entries, constant observation and random stops leaving people afraid and powerless. Tonya also told be about Guilty County. According to her this was the hardest county for a former offender to find work in the whole state. I saw nothing in my twenty years that would make me disbelieve her. She was far from the only person who taught me about the criminal record label.            
 
I had one Hispanic lady (We'll call her Ella-not her real name) who had a drug possession charge because her ex-husband left a small amount of cocaine in her car. Ella was a permanent resident (non citizen but here legally). Her English was so so, with no high school diploma and she was over fifty years old. She also had three high school aged children she was raising on her own. No one would hire Ella. Eventually, she got some part time work cleaning buildings for minimum wage. She had a good work ethic, was always positive, funny and trying to do the right thing. I never saw her feeling sorry for herself or blaming anyone for her situation. Ella just wanted to work and get by. Her brown skin and felon label made her untouchable here in Guilty County. Unable to support herself and children here, she moved out of state and I lost touch with her. She's resilient and will always get by but society has sentenced her to an old age filled with poverty and struggle. The punishment far out weighed the "crime."

I could write for years about the people I've met and what I learned from them. But let's not get off topic, former offenders. My cube became a confessional of sorts. I needed to know what the barriers were to help them. I talked to murders, drug dealers (unlicensed pharmaceutical reps), child molesters and God only know what else. I rarely asked what they did if they told me they had a criminal record. I would rather not know but most told me anyway. My role was to help any and all without judgement. I found the problems faced by this underclass so acute, I created another blog dedicated to former offenders- Get a Job with a Criminal Record. It is not much but something. The situation is not completely hopeless but we can do better.                             

"The New Jim Crow"

"The New Jim Crow"

Michelle Alexander

Racism is still thriving here in the US. The Klan robes have been traded in for suits and ties.    

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Spinning in- What are you going to do?

By any number of measures, the USA is at or very near the end of her life-cycle. Our leadership has left the reality based community. Climate change, income inequality, gun violence, technology threats such as mass surveillance and AI are nothing to worry about. Let's buy Greenland! We have leadership hell bent on solving made up problems like the video game menace and ignoring those just listed. If this is not terrifying in a society that has far far more guns than people, I don't know what the word terrifying means. I've not always felt this way.

When I was a kid, we looked to the future with wonder, possibility and amazement. 2000? 2020? Wow as a kid in the 70's! Now that we are here in 2019, what do I see? Hottest months on record, melting glaciers plus sea level rise, the ever present threat of nuclear war (no, it did not end with the cold war), a made up separation of us and them by the powers that be for the powers that be and racism is still alive and flourishing. I'm sure I could think of more and you could to. What to do? Ignore it all and hope it goes away? Hope this is all just a bad dream and we wake up? No, we have to do more.

I'll start with myself. I see almost no hope with either major political party. Yes, the Democrats may crash it all a little slower and easier but we are in for a hell ride on the way to the crash site. I see a similar result with the Republicans, only faster with even more damage. Don't look to Washington DC for answers. I have to look in the mirror. I can help people find the job / life skills they need to get by and help others. I can be a bridge between the made up us and them. I can listen and talk to others. There is only we. Be aware of of anyone who says otherwise. I can get to better know the local issues here in my community and look for positive just solutions.

Now... What can you do? What will you do?                

Three Writers

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It looks like I'm getting back into the blogging world. I'd like to share with you three writers who have helped shape my thinking over the last five or ten years.

Chris Hedges does a good job of telling us what is wrong and why we are hurtling toward oblivion. The Coming Collapse is a good way to start. He has also written numerous books as well. I'm now reading America, The Farewell Tour. Grim but necessary reading. He also has many videos on YouTube as well. Be warned- not happy or uplifting reading.

Stan Goff is a former soldier turned antiwar activist who teaches us a lot about ourselves many of us would rather not know. Stability is one of the most informative posts I've ever read on line.  He has also written a number of books. Borderline: Reflections on War, Sex and Church took me on a dark tour of military life and some of the history of misogyny. If Stan writes it, know he has done a lot of homework.

John M. Greer writes beyond current sound bite culture about what climate change means for humanity, spirituality and our slow fall back to a post industrial world. There is no one apocalyptic event that casts us back into the dark ages. Rather, it is a long down hill grind. Here is his current blog, Ecosophia. I have read more of his old blog The Archdruid Report, which discusses peak oil and its aftermath.

Do I always agree with these guys? No. Still, I would recommend all three to anyone interested in life beyond yourself.